Marital Conflict
- Intimacy
o Swinging
When couples engage in sexual relationships with other couples
• Consensual
- Basic Value differences
o Kirk Patrick
He saw in the 1950’s – HE saw that looking into literature there were 3 different roles that women played in marriage
• Wife and Mother role
• The Companion Role
• The Partner Role
- Marital Role Expectancy
- Trying to make spouse over.
o As in change the other person
- Tremendous Trifles
o Those little things that become much more important than they should
Because they are Continual, or they come on top of something on top of a big problem
- Allocation of Resources – Money, time and space.
- Children
- External Factors
- Guerilla Warfare
- Psychological Warfare
- Siege
o Not allowing resources come in
o Not allowing necessities coming in.
o Withhold the normal response that is expected from you.
- Blitzkrieg
o Lighting attack
o All off a sudden a loud serious argument. It’s quick and over
o Can inflict quite a bit of damage
- Direct Frontal Assault
o Hand to hand combat.
o Up close and very personal
o AKA Domestic violence
Destructor Conflict – Leaves situation Worse than before
Constructor Conflict – Leaves situation better than before
Biggest part of a Conflict is Denial. Denying that there is a problem and refusing to talk about it or deal with it will make it end up worse.
Evaluate the problem to get started to working towards issue
Divorce, Or you can de-prioritize what Marriage is. There are multiple ways to interpret this. Counseling, therapy, Stay drunk.
Marital Dissolution
- Divorce
- Death
- Annulment
- Separation
o Informal
o Legal
- Abandonment
Divorce Rates
- Crude Divorce Rate
o # Divorces / 1000 population
- Refined Divorce Rate
o # Divorces / 1000women 14 – 45
o
- Intimacy
o Swinging
When couples engage in sexual relationships with other couples
• Consensual
- Basic Value differences
o Kirk Patrick
He saw in the 1950’s – HE saw that looking into literature there were 3 different roles that women played in marriage
• Wife and Mother role
• The Companion Role
• The Partner Role
- Marital Role Expectancy
- Trying to make spouse over.
o As in change the other person
- Tremendous Trifles
o Those little things that become much more important than they should
Because they are Continual, or they come on top of something on top of a big problem
- Allocation of Resources – Money, time and space.
- Children
- External Factors
- Guerilla Warfare
- Psychological Warfare
- Siege
o Not allowing resources come in
o Not allowing necessities coming in.
o Withhold the normal response that is expected from you.
- Blitzkrieg
o Lighting attack
o All off a sudden a loud serious argument. It’s quick and over
o Can inflict quite a bit of damage
- Direct Frontal Assault
o Hand to hand combat.
o Up close and very personal
o AKA Domestic violence
Destructor Conflict – Leaves situation Worse than before
Constructor Conflict – Leaves situation better than before
Biggest part of a Conflict is Denial. Denying that there is a problem and refusing to talk about it or deal with it will make it end up worse.
Evaluate the problem to get started to working towards issue
Divorce, Or you can de-prioritize what Marriage is. There are multiple ways to interpret this. Counseling, therapy, Stay drunk.
Marital Dissolution
- Divorce
- Death
- Annulment
- Separation
o Informal
o Legal
- Abandonment
Divorce Rates
- Crude Divorce Rate
o # Divorces / 1000 population
- Refined Divorce Rate
o # Divorces / 1000women 14 – 45
o